The Strength of My Words

   The Power of Your Will

PENNIE

Author, Speaker & Emotional Success Coach

Do you ever feel guilty or find it difficult to ask others for things you want or need? 

 

“Asking” is more than a notion, and certainly easier said than done. If you’re like most, you find it extremely hard to ask for the things you need, want or work for. And most likely, this inability to “ask” is driven by guilt or not wanting to appear needy.

 

Using the analogy of successful plant growth, Pennie tells you what it takes to harness your courage of asking. She also discusses the importance of having an environment that enriches every aspect of your life; and how a growth thinking mindset puts you in a position of increase.

PENNIE MURRAY: Asking For Richer Ground

 

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THE NEW BOOK

COMING 2010

by Pennie Murray

Your Emotions Can Take You to Greater Heights & Possibilities—but using them correctly takes clarity

Our goal is to help you manage the

emotional side of your success

 

If you’ve ever had a great idea or a worthy aspiration, but self-doubt and a host of fears and worries have caused you to question yourself and your aspirations, then you need to attend our next Giving Myself Permission Clarity Sessions. Hosted and facilitated by speaker, author & success advocate Pennie Murray, these learning  and focused discussion events will help you take definitive steps towards finding and/or getting the most out of your life’s purpose, the love you desire, and the success you seek.

Do any of these statements sound familiar to you?

- “I’ve always dreamed of a career in theater, but…”

- I would further my education, but…”

- I would’ve applied for that promotion, but…”

- Things have been really bad in my relationship for a long time. I would leave, but…”

- “I really hate my job! I get nauseated just thinking about it, but…”

 

If I had a dollar for every time I’ve heard some variation of these statements followed by the many reasons that hold us back I would be rich. But, I’ve learned that the reasons we give for engaging in conscious or unconscious self-restraint or suppressive behavior is rarely what’s holding us back. The truth is, if all these so called hindrances were removed, we would simply come up with something else to justify our apprehensiveness towards success.

 

There are two reasons we continue to experience the shallow end of life. First our inability to give ourselves permission to override our learned inhibitions. Secondly, we’re not as skilled as we should be in sorting out the emotional noises and interferences we receive so we can use them to our advantage.

 

These learned inhibitions and emotional noises can cause you to be apprehensive  and doubtful towards achieving success in the most important areas of life. They can also trigger a fear of rejection and a host of other self-sabotaging behaviors.