HELPING YOU MANAGE THE EMOTIONAL SIDE OF SUCCESS...
The quality of your life doesn't depend on others, it depends on the quality of the choices you make. More importantly, it depends on the state of mind you're in when you make those choices.
Sometimes making solid decisions or acting on our own authority is weakened when we have experiences or make decisions that seemingly failed and life kicks us square in the butt. These situations can cause us to lose confidence in the quality of our choices. When this happens, fear, doubt, and a longing for the approval of others are always just beneath the surface.
Mother, May I?
Red light. Green light
3 Little Childhood Games, Untold Adult Casualties
On the surface, these were just silly children’s games. But their message was more insidious: Don’t move without permission, and if you do, you’re out!
Who would have thought that all these years later, untold numbers of adults would still be bringing up the rear, awaiting random permission from others to advance in the game of life?
We look for the green light from our parents, our friends, our siblings and other significant people in our lives. We play it safe. We avoid. We dumb ourselves down. We act like we don’t know what to do when, in fact, we do.
Why? Because of two, powerful emotions: fear and doubt.
These two words cause us to believe others know better than we do about our own lives. Actually, fear and doubt do serve a positive purpose. They warn us of clear and imminent danger and allow us to act with caution in our physical surroundings. But if we internalize them and make them part of our story, we’ll develop false beliefs about who we are and what we can achieve.
And it doesn’t matter how many degrees we have, how sound our strategy is, or what tangible skills we’ve attained:
Unless we learn to master what I call the Emotional Side of Success, we’ll be credentialed, talented, full of potential—and STUCK.
Quick Gust of CLARITY
Don’t want to make a long-term commitment just yet, but you would love to get a little clarity on something specific? Well, I have a wonderful way you can work with me so you’ll get the benefit of a clarity session centered on you. It’s called the Quick Gust of Clarity session.
Now you can book a single session with me and get that boost or refocus you need. During this session we focus on a specifically identified decision, task, or event you need clarity on. And with laser beam intention, and considering every aspect of your life, we’ll brainstorm the most reasonable and effective next step(s) you might take to make sure you’re getting the outcome that best benefits you.
Once you sign up, you’ll get an email from me regarding our next step and tips on how to make the most of our time together. To make sure we’re on point and not wasting time on the preliminary stuff, I’ll help you narrow the focus before our session begins.
I always say, “Getting the success you want is fabulous. Just make sure in all your getting - you get emotional clarity.”
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